I think something almost everyone complains about these days is getting friendzoned. It's not something only guys face. Girls get friendzoned too. I know it can suck sometimes to know that the only person you are extremely attracted to only sees you "as a friend". Initially I thought the friendzone was a creation of the devil himself. "Why do nice people always get friendzoned", right? But then I realised that the world doesn't owe me anything for being a good friend. In fact, if I think the other person should date me just because I'm so nice to him, that kind of makes me the a-hole.
This man knows what he is talking about.
I don't think we appreciate pure platonic relationships as much as we should. There is something really nice in just being able to talk to a person about every single thing in the universe and just hang out and have a good time without having to worry too much about hurting them. Girls and guys can be "just friends" and it is not something to be upset about. If someone friendzones you, they just don't think you're the one for them and that's okay. Being friendzoned is not an insult. Just move on and know that you're not being punished for "being nice". In fact, you're not being punished at all.
I know a lot of you would disagree with me on this and that's okay too. It's okay to be upset about it.
I'm just saying being friendzoned might not really be as bad a predicament as we think it is. :)
